📍 Block 1 – Foundational Classes
Learning Bondage - An Enjoyment Guide
Educator: Jamie
Jamie brings a unique approach to BDSM from his background as an instructor, a public safety officer and a staff member of the LifeSpring self-actualization courses.
How to safely constrain your partner with rope, chains, belts, handcuffs, zip ties, sweatshirts, plastic wrap, vacuum cleaner, etc, for maximizing your enjoyment.
DATING WHILE KINKY
Educator: Erin Tillman, CSE
Erin Tillman, CSE (she/her), CEO of Relational Equity Group, is a Certified Intimacy Coordinator, Certified Sex Educator, inclusive Dating & Consent Empowerment Coach, Consultant, Author, Speaker, and TV/Radio/Podcast Host based in LA.
It can be difficult to find fellow kinky people in the dating pool who are a ‘Hell Yes’ to your kink style, and for newbies, meeting other kinksters who are in alignment can be especially challenging. Join Sex Educator, Connection Coach & Intimacy Coordinator Erin Tillman, CSE to learn practical tips for finding those who are enthusiastically in alignment.
📍 Block 2 – Communication & Sensation
Finding Your Voice When Vetting & Negotiating
Educator: Dennis (@flogandflow)
Dennis (@flogandflow) is an active member of the San Diego kink community and known for his unique style of flogging that relies not just on brute force, but also rhythm, sensuality, and artistry.
American society loves to glamorize spontaneity. Hollywood sells the idea that when you truly connect with another person, you don’t even need words – everything just flows naturally on its own. We the kink community call bullshit. When you play in a kinky capacity, vetting and negotiation are absolutely vital for your own safety. If you’re newish to the scene, and especially if you lean on the submissive side, this class will help you find your voice. Drawing from real-life experiences shared by other community members, the class will help you consider your own health and wellbeing, go over questions to ask potential play partners, and then give you the opportunity to practice these questions, both in asking and in setting boundaries. Our goal is for you to walk away feeling ready to consider and discuss how you want to play with someone before you actually play with them.
The Physiology of BDSM & Sensual Play with Madame Rose
Educator: Madame Rose Rebel & pup kodi
Madame Rose Rebel is a highly respected Lifestyle and Professional Dominant whose dynamic approach blends classical BDSM techniques with modern, intuitive innovation.
Unlock the science behind sensation in this immersive class led by Madame Rose. Whether you’re new to the scene or looking to refine your skills, learn how chemical reactions shape physical and emotional responses to consensual stimulation. Explore the art of intentional dominance, discover the importance of warm-ups, master “lasagna” layering techniques, and learn how to ride the natural rhythm—from warm-up to peak, and into essential aftercare and debriefing.
📍 Block 3 – Advanced & Specialty Techniques
Fisting: Anal and Vaginal
Educator: Goddess Styx
Goddess Styx is a fierce and intuitive facilitator of sacred, transformative spaces where sensuality and power intertwine.
Explore the intimate art of fisting with safety, confidence, and trust. This class covers anatomy, preparation techniques, safe practices, consent negotiation, and aftercare, empowering you to experience or facilitate this intense form of connection safely and pleasurably.
Hosiery Fetish
Educators: Goddess Emmeline Divine & Dante Du Freak
Goddess Emmeline Divine is a Lifestyle Mistress and Professional Dominatrix with a passion for building community alongside her partner, Dante Du Freak.
Indulge in the sensual allure of pantyhose and stockings in this playful and informative class. Goddess Emmeline explores the fascination, psychological appeal, and sensual integration of hosiery into BDSM play, sharing personal insights, safety considerations, and creative scenarios to enrich your experiences.
🎉 Bonus Nighttime Fun – HOB Afterparty!
House of Black (HOB) is hosting a play party the evening of June 28. All Kink Workshop attendees get exclusive discounted access. Keep the connection, exploration, and excitement going into the night! 🖤
❓ Frequently Asked Questions
Is this event open to all genders, orientations, and identities?
Yes! The Kink Workshop is inclusive and welcomes all adults (18+) regardless of gender, orientation, identity, or experience level.
Do I need to be kinky or experienced to attend?
Not at all. Whether you're curious and brand-new or already experienced, our class lineup offers something for every level. Several classes are beginner-focused.
Is this a play party?
No—this is a day of education and hands-on practice, not a play party. There will be no open or public play during the workshop. However, attendees will receive a discounted invite to House of Black's vetted afterparty that evening.
Can I attend alone?
Absolutely. You do not need a partner to attend or participate. Solo attendees are welcomed and encouraged.
Can I bring a partner or friend?
Yes! We even offer a discounted couples/friends ticket option to encourage shared learning and practice.
Is there any nudity or explicit content?
While some demos may involve anatomical discussion or non-sexual nudity for educational purposes, this is a structured and respectful learning space. Consent and comfort are prioritized.
Do I have to participate in hands-on portions?
Nope. You can observe any portion of the workshop. Participation is always optional, and consent is emphasized throughout.
What’s included in my ticket?
Access to all 6 classes
Catered lunch
Entry to vendor rooms and silent auction
Hands-on learning time
Community networking opportunities
Discounted entry to the HOB afterparty
What should I bring?
Notebook or phone for notes
Comfortable clothes
A partner, if you want to practice during demos (optional)
Will there be vendors?
Yes! Our vendor marketplace includes curated local artisans and kinky small businesses—plus a silent auction to support scholarships.
Will tickets be available at the door?
Only if the event doesn’t sell out. We strongly recommend pre-purchasing tickets to secure your spot and receive early bird pricing.
More Events by SD Bad Intentions
Beyond The Kink Workshop, SD Bad Intentions hosts a full year of parties, workshops, and socials rooted in consent, community, and kink exploration. Check out our Eventbrite page for everything happening next.